I also recommend Bruce Bagemihl’s Biological Exuberance, an extensive catalog of diverse sexual development and behavior. Their work challenges those who claim that non-procreative sexual behaviors are “maladaptive evolution” because they don’t allow the individual to leave more offspring, but it’s clear from many of our closest genetic relatives (especially bonobos) that sex is not just about reproduction. It is often about strengthening social bonds within groups, and that same-sex activity is an important part of that.
Evolution’s Rainbow: Diversity, Gender, and Sexuality in Nature and People
The Genial Gene: Deconstructing Darwinian Selfishness
Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity